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Is it a sign that your husband is cheating if he closes the bathroom door?

Question by willow: Is it a sign that your husband is cheating if he closes the bathroom door?
On several of the internet sites about cheating husbands, they talk about your husband beginning to close the door when he used to leave it open. My husband has been having an emotional affair with his first love, but he won’t admit it. He started closing the door when he urinated and he never did that before. I wondered if any of you ever had that experience

Best answer:

Answer by GiGi
I don’t have any experience with it, but…if he never closed the door before, I would say maybe he’s using his phone while he is in there now. Check to see if he has his phone with him, that might clue you in.

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How can I catch my cheating spouse?

Article by Ed Opperman

Copyright (c) 2009 Ed Opperman

You know that your spouse is seeing somebody else — you see all of the telltale signs that your husband, or wife, is cheating on you, but you can’t quite come up with the definitive proof that you need so that you can confront them on their infidelity. While it is generally recommended that you do, in fact, have proof of cheating before you make any accusations, what can you do to catch a cheating spouse — in the act, or before-or-after the fact?

As many people might guess, one of the best ways to catch a cheating spouse is by hiring a private investigator. They can provide the absolute proof that you need so that you can confront your spouse on their infidelity. However, as times have changed, the term ‘private investigator’ now has more than just one meaning.

Traditionally, when you think of a private investigator, or PI, you think about the person who follows suspected cheaters around town, records their phone conversations, climbs up into trees, and snaps photos of would-be cheaters who are out and about together. While there are PIs who offer these types of surveillance services today, there are also other types of infidelity investigation services available — which, these other services may not only be less expensive in terms of monetary cost, they may actually be more reliable.

As today’s world is built up of high-tech gadgetry, and there are an unlimited number of online opportunities for cheaters to practice their deceit on the internet, the natural progression of the spy-like investigative services of old is to utilize today’s technologies, and services, to perform these types of investigations. Today, you can hire an investigator, or an investigative service, to rebuild your spouse’s cell-phone activity, even if it has been deleted, and these services can also trace your spouse’s online activities using only their email address.

As an example, if your spouse frequents married-but-dating websites, they can likely be tracked. If your spouse uses adult chat services, these can likely be tracked. Taking this even further — some investigative services can catch a cheating spouse in the act — they will setup a profile, interact with your spouse if your spouse is found to be using online services to cheat, and the investigator can compile the proof you need to finally confront your spouse about their cheating ways.

As most people know, hiring a private investigator is a great way to catch a cheating spouse. However, sometimes the best way to catch a cheater is to use the very technology that they are using to cheat on you, to catch them in the act.

Q&A: Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating?

Question by xmelax35: Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating?
Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating on you? What do you think are some signs or ways to find out they have been cheating? In the past I have had what you would call a sixth sense and I some how had that feeling and was correct, but since then I get that feeling again, but I can’t imagine this guy is cheating on me, although he has had plenty of opportunities. (I actually caught one guy in bed with another woman in our apartment – long story). I just don’t want to screw this relationship up with telling him I think he is or asking, without knowing. Although I have met these men and knew from others that they cheated in their previous relationships, somehow I thought they’d change and I went out with them anyway (I know stupid). I have always done everything right and I am not ugly and I am a very nice girl, I just am a magnet for cheating men. So again, any ideas how to catch or any signs?

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Answer by Dave G
hey its never hurt to ask if its eating you up inside ask if he is your not going to srew it up by asking nothing wrong with asking hon so follow your heart

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what is the least painful and easiest way to forgive your spouse for cheating?

Question by domma: what is the least painful and easiest way to forgive your spouse for cheating?
Can you ever trust them again? How do you not stop thinking about it, or bring it up when the next arguement hits?Does the marriage eventually break up anyways? Can people be happy after cheating and the spouse finds out?

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Answer by Erin Ne’
No you can never trust them again. You never stop thinking about it or bringing it up. The marriage does eventually break up anyways. People can be happy after cheating and the spouse finds out – just not with the person that cheated on them. You know what they say “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Something to think about…if you had not found out about the cheating – how long would it have gone on?

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If Cheating isn’t About Sex then Why do Men Cheat?

Article by TW Jackson

The age old question of why men cheat is still a mystery to many today as it was centuries ago. The mystery has been explained though. The big mystery is how modern man can still be the echo of ancient predecessors.

Why do men cheat?

In the beginning, sounds almost Biblical doesn’t it, mankind was concerned with one thing: survival. There were few men upon the earth and the most basic and primitive of instincts was to survive. One manner of doing this was through reproduction. Men didn’t cleave to one woman at the time. They ‘sowed their seeds’ far and wide in an effort to ensure the survival not only of their own line but of the entire species as well.

Some believe it’s one of the most basic links in the DNA of man. It’s the need, still today, to ensure survival of the species. It’s not a conscious need. Even men who are adamant that they do not want children still have the compulsion to copulate.

What does this have to do with cheating?

Back when there were very few humans roaming the face of the earth there was a greater need to increase the odds of actually producing offspring. Men would go from one woman to the next in hopes of ‘bearing fruit’.

It wasn’t about love or even lust it was a physical compulsion hard wired into the DNA that served a very useful purpose (too good if you carefully consider the nearly 7 billion people roaming the face of the planet today). Some could argue that it has outlived its usefulness and yet it’s still there.

Men today still have those urges. It’s part of what some men use to justify cheating. The problem is that we have all this education and knowledge of past events and we know that most marriages don’t tolerate cheating well.

This is an excuse that has long outlived its usefulness. Today men cheat for a wide range of reasons. Some reasons are baffling while others are pretty straightforward. Here are just a few of the reasons men give for cheating on their wives:

* I didn’t think I’d get caught.

* The opportunity presented itself.

* My wife doesn’t understand me.

* My wife is a cold fish.

* There’s too much stress at home.

* My wife is a nag.

* It seemed like the thing to do at the time.

* Sex without strings sounds good to me.

Not one of these reasons has anything to do with the other woman being younger, prettier, sexier, smarter, more successful, or any other reason that women often believe their men cheat.

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