why do i dream of my husband cheating on me?
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Question by Mariah R: why do i dream of my husband cheating on me?
I keep dreaming of my husband cheating on me with a co-worker.I don’t know this girl but its always the same one in my dream. But are my dreams trying to tell me something?
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Answer by ♥ ♥HONESTY RULES♥♥
My husband has dreams of this nature constantly. I believe that it is a form of insecurity on his part… but I can’t be sure.
THe worst is when he actually gives me CRAP for dream cheating…
I’m just like WTF? Seriously? lol
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well, maybe you are just feeling insecure and paranoid..
if you still don’t trust your husband, u guys should really sit down and have a talk together, so you will feel better
It means you are insecure with your self and your marriage. Confront your dream and keep an eye on him.
Probably not unless you really think he’s cheating. My guess is that you have a jealous streak and he has mentioned her from work in some work related story. You have manufactured the idea that he is cheating with her in your mind. If you don’t get this under control, your jealousy will destroy your marriage. If you confront him about cheating with her (and he isn’t) that will only encourage him to really cheat. Why not if a person is being blamed for cheating?
I went through this with my ex husband, I kept dreaming that he was cheating… I wasn’t wrong he was, that’s the reason he is my ex husband. So hopefully that answers your question!
just snoop around and pay more attention to things.im sure its just a dream but ita worth checking out
There are a couple of things that could be happening.
1) Your husband has been acting differently, going out with-out you, going to a lot of business trips and staying late for work. You are now registering that something is off and you wondering if he is cheating / having an affair. So when you dream you natural dream of this scenario.
2) You are insecure or are feeling guilty that you aren’t treating your husband the way he deserves (perhaps a lack of intimacy in the relationship). Your unconcious mind is then playing out this dream of him cheating / having an affair because that is often the end result when one spouse isn’t giving the other what he / she needs.
Sounds like you are insecure in your marriage talk to your husband could be he is not giving you the attention you need and deserve…good luck
I dream about mine leaving me all the time (never cheating)- he’s either in the process or has left, and Im trying to get a hold of him through txts or calling and I never can. And in my dreams, he’s always super mean, which is not like him at all!! He’s the nicest sweetest guy ever. They’re just dreams, and our crazy women brains are feeding them! I wouldn’t worry about it at all.
Often dreams are your minds way of dealing with what’s troubling you, or your fears in general. I don’t think your dreams are omens, just your mind messing with itself to see how it reacts. Like solitaire.
My guess is that you are a tad concerned about having read so many stories (especially here) about people having extramarital sex.
Firsty, it doesnt mean he is.
Dreaming of a partner cheating can have several sources.
In Your case, its the same woman who you dont know, most likely you have seen someone with a physical attribute which you are maybe lacking or which you know your husband would like, and it has played on your mind a bit, probably without you even realising. your brain has simply placed her in the role of a co-worker for some reason and made you SLIGHTLY insecure or jealous.
(Dreams tend to emphasise emotions alot)
However, if you dream of actually catching a partner you suspected of cheating, its a different story, that means deep down you would WANT to catch them at it, prove yourself right, become the victim, and “put you out of your suspicious misery” so to speak. These are linked to an ongoing consious suspicion. hope this helps…