Cheating Spouse Questions

Is it a sign that your husband is cheating if he closes the bathroom door?

Question by willow: Is it a sign that your husband is cheating if he closes the bathroom door?
On several of the internet sites about cheating husbands, they talk about your husband beginning to close the door when he used to leave it open. My husband has been having an emotional affair with his first love, but he won’t admit it. He started closing the door when he urinated and he never did that before. I wondered if any of you ever had that experience

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Answer by GiGi
I don’t have any experience with it, but…if he never closed the door before, I would say maybe he’s using his phone while he is in there now. Check to see if he has his phone with him, that might clue you in.

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Q&A: Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating?

Question by xmelax35: Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating?
Ways to find out your spouse/boyfriend/ or girlfriend have been cheating on you? What do you think are some signs or ways to find out they have been cheating? In the past I have had what you would call a sixth sense and I some how had that feeling and was correct, but since then I get that feeling again, but I can’t imagine this guy is cheating on me, although he has had plenty of opportunities. (I actually caught one guy in bed with another woman in our apartment – long story). I just don’t want to screw this relationship up with telling him I think he is or asking, without knowing. Although I have met these men and knew from others that they cheated in their previous relationships, somehow I thought they’d change and I went out with them anyway (I know stupid). I have always done everything right and I am not ugly and I am a very nice girl, I just am a magnet for cheating men. So again, any ideas how to catch or any signs?

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Answer by Dave G
hey its never hurt to ask if its eating you up inside ask if he is your not going to srew it up by asking nothing wrong with asking hon so follow your heart

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what is the least painful and easiest way to forgive your spouse for cheating?

Question by domma: what is the least painful and easiest way to forgive your spouse for cheating?
Can you ever trust them again? How do you not stop thinking about it, or bring it up when the next arguement hits?Does the marriage eventually break up anyways? Can people be happy after cheating and the spouse finds out?

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Answer by Erin Ne’
No you can never trust them again. You never stop thinking about it or bringing it up. The marriage does eventually break up anyways. People can be happy after cheating and the spouse finds out – just not with the person that cheated on them. You know what they say “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Something to think about…if you had not found out about the cheating – how long would it have gone on?

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Could he be cheating?

Question by m_lynn_01: Could he be cheating?
What are sure signs your spouse may be cheating?? My hubby has been acting a little weird the past couple weeks. He worked more OT in the first position he had at his new job and the past few weeks he has changed areas. He goes to work and comes home but all of a sudden he doesnt try for sex anymore he says because I give him crap for trying every night so he just stopped, he usually is practically begging me to take him to work on the weekends and tonight he says do what i want, he used to call me religiously every break and lunch and now im lucky to get 10-15 minutes a day. Says he doesnt want to be rude to the guys he works with by talking on the phone. Says living with my parents is making him miserable, which i understand. Our sex life has SUCKED since we have been here. I noticed glitter on his lip and on his face even after taking a shower. He only goes to work and comes home. He works at a big factory. Could he really cheat at work? There are no females that work in his area but I know they are around and if he is gonna cheat he will find a way. I am driving myself crazy over this! Do i just need to blow everything off and pretend like I dont give a shit? I made the mistake in a conversation one night by telling him I am almost obsessed with him, and he had made the comment “well I guess I never have to worry about you cheating on me” he is my husband I love him very much!!! We have a daughter together ( plus he has 3 other kids with 2 other women) I also have a son of my own. Who would want that baggage anyway? Am I just being paranoid?? What should I seriously be looking for as far as signs??
We have had SEVERAL talks and last week he pretty much told me it had to stop or something was gonna happen. He told me what would make him happy is me to quit being so negative and to just be happy. I am trying!! No he doesnt work later than he says he is going to. This sounds crazy but I keep track of his OT!!! I need to learn some trust!! The reason behind me acting this way is his previous job, his WHORE of a boss was trying to get with him and i almost left him over it cuz i didnt think he was doing anything to stop her. he said he didnt realize she was coming on to him and he ignored her anyway unless it was work related. HUGE DRAMA!!!!
I dont check for lipstick I have checked for cum in the underwear. He knows I can show up at his at ANY time. Also my paranoid thoughts come from dreams I have of him taking luinches and breaks with girls and sometimes driving off and having sex with them. In my dreams the girls name is usually Jessica or Angela, when I went to have lunch with him the other day a girl came out to talk to his supervisor and he said he didnt know who she was but later told me he asked his supervisor who she was and her name was…………. JESSICA. But she also married looked about 12 NOT ATTRACTIVE, but i dont know what is attractive to him anyway, his ex gf is HUGE and his ex wife looks like a crack whore! I am going to lose my mind!!!!
He knows I can check phone records so he isnt dumb enough to call anyone lol or text. I should have been a P.I. I investigate EVERTHING, its almost a fault to an extent! I have a real problem. I never had a problem until over the summer when we lived where he worked at an apartment complex.

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Answer by Erin
I can tell you are worrying yourself sick about this one! As you suspect more he will only continue to act even weirder. He will pick up on the fact that you suspect something and it will push him away even more because he will know that you dont trust him. I would confront him humbly and ask what you can do to help get your spark back. Tell him that you dont feel appreciated/loved. Dont point fingers until you are sure this is whats going on. Reach out to him before its to late and neither of you have may respect/trust for each other.

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Just for laughs!!! What’s the craziest thing you have done to catch a cheating lover?

Question by : Just for laughs!!! What’s the craziest thing you have done to catch a cheating lover?
Everyone knows that when it comes to catching a cheating spouse or lover, women are the best detectives there are. But after talking to some of my girlfriends this past weekend, I realized that some of the things that females do border on down right crazy!!!! What’s the craziest thing that you have done or that has been done to you?

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Answer by Sedelia
Followed my boyfriend to the girlfriend house took air out of all 4 of his tires so when he left the tires were all flat so he had to call for help but the dam fool was 30 minues away on the other side of town he drove his car on the rims rather than explain to me why he was on the other side of town!
the other was i put laxatives in his food so when he went over there he had shits and she put him out he came home i changed the locks on the doors lol…he shitted on himself!

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