About Me

I’m just going to be brutally honest here. Before giving my life to God in 1995 I was a pathological cheater. My males friends were so impressed with my ability to get caught cheating and still get away with it that they referred to me as the “Teflon man”.

I’m not proud of how I used to live but I want you to understand how clever some cheaters can be. Really good con artists never appear to be lying. But they do have some telltale signs. And outside of my second marriage (where I was a 100% faithful husband) I’ve helped many of my friends recognize the signs of cheating in their own relationships. And it is just a matter of recognizing it.

The signs are all there, but you need to see them for what they are. Having a blind faith in my second wife, I myself fell victim to a cheater because I failed to see the same signs of cheating that I had spotted in so many of my friend’s marriages.

Don’t think for a moment that you can’t be fooled. I was the most successful cheater I had ever met, knew all the tricks and I still didn’t see the cheating going on in my own marriage. Please learn the true signs of cheating and start to pay attention. If your spouse is cheating, you can catch them.

Scott